First of all, I think I could not have gotten more playing this game with any other people beside the 2 of you. You provided a truly safe, and open environment for us to look honestly at our lives and get some real feedback. Solid stuff.

Just to consolidate what I learnt, I explored and discovered being courageous enough to be honest about my thoughts, and my feelings, and it was nothing more than liberating. Surrendering to what I know, what I don't know, and stop pretending I'm somebody or trying to be someone else. Perhaps the greatest feedback for me was understanding that everything is perfect. I am perfect the way I am, and stop discounting that, and start accepting myself for who I am.

And to put that in place, be in service, and serve with no strings attached. Allow the beauty and emotional side of myself to be expressed, having no need for myself, no one to be, nothing to become. Walk the journey of life, with enthusiasm, and joy.

Have the flexibility to Communicate my feelings and emotions, and explore them. Intimacy, contact. Perhaps the greatest barrier for myself is letting go of a safe and preconceived idea I've formed of myself, a good guy image, and live honestly in truth to who I am.

Thanks folks for being there, and yup, I promise I'll get some work done.

CL